The first time I had a sexual relationship with a woman I was 20 years old serving in the Navy. My ship, the U.S.S Jason, arrived in Singapore in September of 1987. I walked off the ship and hailed the first cab I saw. The driver asked if I wanted a woman naturally being a guy and a virgin I was interested.

I asked how much and he told me the price seemed reasonable so I agreed.

I was taken to a hotel and led to a small room where these two men entered and began to negotiate the price. They left and shortly returned with an older woman who was probably in her 50's. She was fun taught me everything a young man needed to know about how to please a woman. She didn't believe me when I said this was my first time I suppose she was impressed. I nibbled her nipples, toyed her tummy, her softness, and played her as if my life depended on it. I was on top of her she was on top of me, she sucked me dry. We proceeded to talk a bit and I learned that she was married to a Lt Colonel serving in the Army in India and didn't care one bit that his wife earned her money doing what she did.

Not only did I play my first prostitute but it was also my first fling with a married woman. Talk about killing two birds with one stone. Afterwards, I left knowing that there was no way anyone could not say I was not a man.